Antics 28Mar21

Antics 28Mar21

Been very busy of late, and having way too much fun to remember to take pics in session a lot of the time. Whoops. Here are some I do have, and have been rather remiss in uploading them.

Antics 01Jan21 & NY Discount

Antics 01Jan21 & NY Discount

Happy New Year all, here’s hoping for a much better year all round for everyone x

A few pics from recent sessions. I have decided also, this weekend to offer a discount on all bookings. Call to enquire, my thanks to everyone for your continued support x

Antics 09Nov20

Antics 09Nov20

A few fun pics from recent sessions. Enjoy, i did lol

Antics 18Oct20

Antics 18Oct20

Fun session last night, slut asked for intense. Not sure who had more fun. Nah i did haha. I think he may be quietly cussing me today. I expect nipples, ass and cock to all be rather sensitive. Finished off with him in sling receiving a rather vigorous and challenging fisting.

Antics 16Oct20

Antics 16Oct20

I apologise for my lack of posts lately. Work has been rather busy, which is a good thing but leaves me time and energy poor for other things. Like updates 🙂

I’ve been busy having fun with an array of regulars as well as having the opportunity to torment more than a few new sluts as well. Lots of fun, hopefully for them as well. A few new toys added to the collection as well over the past few months.

A few pics to tide you over, Im still yet to edit a load of videos to see which are suitable to post. Getting there !

 

 

 

Antics 17Jun20

Antics 17Jun20

Firstly, I hope everyone is managing to muddle through this revolting time at the moment. I know people are doing it tough, my thoughts go out to those of you who have been impacted by this virus in more serious ways than mere inconvenience. Hopefully it wont be long till we see the other end of it.

I love my own space, introvert that I am, but even I have been going stir crazy and sleeping loads, in between my sanity check of play 🙂 Thank the universe I have been kept sane and out of mischief by some fun regular sluts, and a few new ones as well. Also gotten a few new toys downstairs. I look forward to catching up when people are feeling confident being out and about again.

In the meantime, some pics for your entertainment. If I have missed your communication of late, and you still would like to connect please do try again. I cant always get back to people in a timely manner, and i wont after too much time has passed.

 

 

Antics 16Apr20

Antics 16Apr20

More pics of recent antics with various sluts who have been keeping me rather busy of late. If i haven’t responded to your call, I do apologise, please contact me again if you are still interested in making a booking.

 

Antics 19Mar20

Antics 19Mar20

Very busy week last week, all long bookings. A few of my favourite sluts to torment.

I was trying to work on editing some of the video footage I have yet to upload, when i stupidly deleted the lot off my drive. Of course i clicked yes on the “too big for recycle, do u want to delete permanently” dialogue box that popped up. Currently looking through places to see if i have a backup someplace :/

In other news, you wont catch corona virus coming in. Im probably safer than anywhere else with other people. Condoms, gloves and everything is viracleaned (hospital grade disinfectant). And i managed to get toilet paper, eventually lol

Back to looking at what video I do have still…

 

 

Antics 11Mar20

Antics 11Mar20

More pics of recent play with some of my sluts. Some new, a joy to torment 🙂

 

Antics 03Mar20

Antics 03Mar20

Some fun sessions this week with some very horny sluts. Someone I haven’t seen before  came in the other evening for an extended anal session. He hadn’t seen a professional Mistress before, but threw himself into the experience enjoying every second. Not sure who was more exhausted by the end, slut or myself lol He was great fun though.

Last night more fun with a regular latex/pvc fetish slut of mine. Tormented slut a bit before giving his arse a good fucking in the sling. Told him next time I’m going to send him home in chastity, he may not even get to cum …. Some fun pics below during session.

Antics 27Feb20

Antics 27Feb20

Been very busy of late, a few fun pics below. Some video to come too so keep watching….

 

Antics 20Jan20

Antics 20Jan20

Welcome to the New Year. I hope everyone had a great festive season and stayed safe. I’ve been kept rather busy with many different sluts, and been having loads of fun torturing and tormenting them. Some pics below, apologies for my tardiness in uploading them – time poor. I also have a few videos to have a look at and see what I can upload in those too. Next….

Twisted Antics

Twisted Antics

Some pics showing the twisted antics lately with some fun new sluts, and some I haven’t seen for a while.

I do so love the unusual and bent, and it seems to be the flavour of the month (such as golden showers squirted through gags and into eye goggles). I have also had some fun bi play with Master Damion, as well as tormenting a few cock sluts, cross dressers and sissies.

Also some new toys gifted by one of my favourite regular sluts that I have been having fun with. Other than that, after annihilating my website I have been kept busy trying to restore everything as it was. Torture for me, I’m much more talented in the playroom than the back end of a website :/

Thankfully I am getting there. I appreciate everyone’s patience. I apologise for the lack of updates but there are only so many hours in the day 😉

 

Archive: Lots of new sluts

Lots of new sluts

Lots of new sluts mixed in with regulars of late. Anal, discipline, sounds, vac bed, mummification etc. A few new toys too. Some pics below.

New thigh high boots

New thigh high boots as a belated birthday present from a very generous slut. I hope he enjoys me wearing them, as much as I shall 🙂 A few pics below taken yesterday.

Been a very busy couple of weeks, especially this one. A lot of fun new sluts to torment as well. More on that later.

Discipline Caning

Discipline Caning

Discipline caning for slut meant lots of giggles in session this evening, for me at least. I can say with certainty slut was not laughing, instead he was suitably nervous on arrival. Slut was due 70 cane strokes for behaviour correction. I decided to make things a little more interesting, with an incentive for him. The encounter was not off to a good start, with slut being late for our scheduled time.

Last caning he yelled through most of the paltry 12 strokes delivered. I decided that each stroke he took without yelling, would reduce the total due by an extra 2 strokes. Each stroke that caused him to yell, would only count as 1. This meant that at best he would only take 24 strokes of the cane, at worst all 70.

To make things more interesting for me, and more challenging for him I attached electro pads to his cock and balls. And set the Erostek to “microphone” setting placing it in line with his head under the bench top. As it turned out it was even better incentive than reduced strokes,. If he yelled not only did those strokes count as one each, but he would get zapped as he set off the electro-stim box.

I was slightly disappointed at how well he did during the discipline caning, only delivering 30 strokes all up with four different canes. Obviously I was being too kind to him in spite of my intentions. Next time that certainly wont be the case. He will also be penalised extra strokes for keeping me waiting, one for every minute he is late.

Nonetheless he was rewarded for his stoicism with some erotic tease afterwards, Some positive reinforcement encouraging more acceptable behaviour in future. I look forward to the next encounter..

Electrical bdsm play

Electrical bdsm play

There are two main implements used in electrical bdsm play. The violet wand is one and the tens unit is another. The Erostek is a more sophisticated electrical bdsm play implement than the tens unit. The violet wand and tens unit or Erostek deliver vastly different sensations to the recipient. Neither should be used with anyone who has a pacemaker, nor generally used above the waist.

I am yet to meet a submissive who enjoys the violet wand as its current is delivered more as a series of static electrical shocks. The tens unit or Erostek however most enjoy, the current being a rhythmic pulse sensation. There are various attachments one can use, from pads, to sounds, to dildos or anal plugs, cock rings and wartenburg wheels.

Electrical bdsm play can be either light and erotic or more intense depending both of the amount of electricity (battery or mains) and the intensity (volume level as it were) delivered. I use the Erostek as it is designed primarily for erotic use, whereas the tens unit is designed for physiotherapy. The tens has less pulse settings or range compared to an Erostek and the sensations are more crude.

Electrical bdsm play can seem daunting or scary at first but in the hands of a skilled Mistress should be safe and enjoyable no matter what intensity one enjoys. As you adjust to the sensation it can also be intensified through the session if desired. It can also be combined with other bdsm play. Broad flat attachments will be much less intense to the recipient than attachments such as the wartenburg which delivers the current from a small pointed area.

The past week I have seen a few sluts who have been surprised by their enjoyment of electrical bdsm play. One a relative novice, who had not experienced electrical bdsm play before. And was hesitant to try it, but bravely decided to trust me 😉 The other experienced, who I used more intense implements on namely the wartenburg wheel.

After adjusting to the sensations both were begging to have the electrical current turned up. My favourite is to combine electrical bdsm play with other CBT or discipline, hot wax, tease with the body wand vibrator. All of which work well going by various sluts’ reactions. It pays to trust the person you are seeing, which is any Mistress skilled in such play. You can always safeword if you find its not to your liking.

I had a lot of fun with both sluts this week, my novice slut by the end had me turn the Erostek almost three quarters of the way up 😉 Being open to various forms of play allows you to try different aspects of bdsm in a safe environment and find those that you enjoy. Also those you dont enjoy. Thats ok too, its part of the journey.

 

Antics 10Jun19

Hopefully those in NSW have enjoyed their long weekend, i did !!! Below are some pics from the fun and games that have been keeping me too busy to update ! Not to mention the recent videos posted, a taste of what has gone on in session. Some of it rather funny.

Also over the weekend, one lucky slut was honoured with both Mistress Imperia and myself in a double session. It was great to catch up with not only an awesome Mistress but a long time friend, sadly with both our work schedules we dont get the chance to catch up as much these days.

Getting anyone to come out to parramatta is usually a challenge with varying schedules. I very much appreciated the effort she made, and we had a good giggle at slut’s expense for the afternoon. We finished off our abuse of slut by playing Hokie Pokie in his arse lol …. I’ve missed the comaraderie of working with other ladies I realised… or maybe just with her haha.

Enjoy the pics and hopefully I will see some of you soon 😉

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The difference a day can make…

Wow, such a loss Steve Jobs passing. Wanted to share an article I read. Sad.

Steve Jobs Was Always Kind To Me (Or, Regrets of An Asshole)

I met Steve Jobs while I worked at Gizmodo. He was always a gentleman. Steve liked me and he liked Gizmodo. And I liked him back. Some of my friends who I used to work with at Gizmodo refer to those days as the Good Old Days. That is because those were the days before it all went to shit. That was before we got the iPhone 4 prototype.

***

The first time I met Steve was at the infamous D conference where Walt Mossberg interviewed Bill Gates and Steve Jobs. Ryan Block was editor of Engadget and it was a pretty fierce competition. Ryan was a veteran, and I was just getting my legs under me. It was lunchtime, and Ryan saw Jobs–he ran up and said hello. A minute later, I gathered up the courage and did the same.

From a 2007 Gizmodo post:

Meeting Steve Jobs

I bumped into Steve Jobs in the hall a little while ago, on the way to lunch at All Things D.

He’s taller than I thought he would be, and pretty tanned. Hawaii. I go to introduce myself and then think that he’s probably busy and doesn’t want to be mobbed. I go get some salad, think that its my job to be at least a little aggressive with these things, so I put down my plate, and I finally squeeze by the crowd to introduce myself. No banter, just wanted to say hi, I’m Brian from Gizmodo. And you made the iPod, right? (I didn’t say that second part.)

Then Steve got really excited and happy.

And he tells me that he reads the site. Actually, 3-4 times a day, since it doesn’t sit still for very long. I told him that I appreciate the clicks, and that I’ll keep buying iPods if he keeps clicking. It’s his favorite gadget blog. It was a really, really nice moment. His face scrunched up with genuine excitement. I must have looked like one of those gals front row at a Beatles concert, as much as I tried to be “professional.”

Because honestly, I thought the guy would be totally worked up about Jesus’s awesome Photoshops of Steve Jobs. The man has a sense of humor.

It was an honor to have a man who is extremely focused on quality and doing things in his own way approve of our work here. Especially with all the typos I make on a daily basis.
***

A few years later, I remember emailing him to show him early versions of the Gawker redesign. He didn’t really like it. But he liked us. “most of the time.”

“From: Steve Jobs <sjobs@apple.com;

Subject: Re: Gizmodo on iPad

Date: March 31, 2010 6:00:56 PM PDT

To: brian lam <blam@gizmodo.com;

Brian,

Parts of it I like, and other parts I don’t understand.  I’m not sure the “information density” is high enough for you and your brand.  Seems a bit too tame to me.  I’ll look for it this weekend and be able to give you some more useful feedback after that.

I like what you guys do most of the time, and am a daily reader.

Steve

Sent from my iPad

On Mar 31, 2010, at 1:06 PM, brian lam wrote:

Here you go, a rough sketch. Should be launched, as the standard face of Gizmodo, by the 3g’s launch. What it’s meant to do is be friendlier to scan for the 97% of our readers who don’t come every day…”

***

Around the same time, Jobs was shopping around the iPad to publishers, trying to get them to adopt the iPad as a platform, and Jobs would repeatedly, according to friends in the room at several publications, bring up Gizmodo as an example of a magazine-like experience online.

I don’t ever think I was comfortable with the idea that Jobs or anyone at Apple, like Jon Ive, was reading our work. It was scrappy, sloppy, inspired, mainstream-ish, and in general, experimental in nature. It was, frankly, embarrassing to have people who were obsessed with perfection reading something that was designed to be imperfect but alive and flowing. It was also firmly anti-establishment, like Apple used to be.

But Apple was winning and was starting to become the Establishment. I knew it was only a matter of time before we collided. Getting bigger is sometimes hard, I was about to find out.

***

I was on sabbatical when Jason got his hands on the iPhone prototype.

An hour after the story went live, the phone rang and the number was from Apple HQ. I figured it was someone from the PR team. It was not.

“Hi, this is Steve. I really want my phone back.”

He wasn’t demanding. He was asking. And he was charming and he was funny. I was half-naked, just getting back from surfing, but I managed to keep my shit together.

“I appreciate you had your fun with our phone and I’m not mad at you, I’m mad at the sales guy who lost it. But we need the phone back because we can’t let it fall into the wrong hands.”

I thought, maybe its already in the wrong hands?

He continued, “There are two ways we can do this. I can send someone to pick up the phone–”

Me: “I don’t have it”

“–But you know someone who does…or we can send someone with legal papers, and I don’t want to do that.”

He was giving us an easy way out.

I told him I had to talk to my dudes. Before he hung up, he asked me, “What do you think of it?”

I said, “It’s beautiful.”

***

The next call, I told him we’d give him his phone back. He said, “Great, where do we send someone?” And I replied that before we talked about that, we needed to talk about the conditions: we needed Apple to claim it as theirs, which is what we saw as the right legal process for claiming goods that had been lost. He said he didn’t want to claim it on record because it would affect sales of the current model. He said, “you’re asking me to shoot my toes off!” Maybe it was about the money, but maybe it wasn’t. I got the feeling that he just didn’t want to be told what to do, and I didn’t want to be told what to do, either. Especially by someone who I was supposed to be covering. Plus, I was sort of in a position to tell Steve Jobs what to do, and I was going to take it.

This time, he was not happy. He had to talk to some people, so we hung up again.

When he called me back, the first thing he said was, “Hey Brian, it’s YOUR NEW BEST FAVORITE PERSON IN THE WORLD.”

I laughed and so did he.  Then, he sharply pivoted and said, “So what’s it gonna be?”

I gave it to him straight: “If you don’t want to give us the letter claiming it, I guess it’s going to be papers. It doesn’t matter because one way or another we’ll get our confirmation that it is yours.”

He did not like that. Steve said, “This is some serious shit. If I have to serve you papers, and go through the trouble of it, I’m coming for something and its going to mean someone in your organization will go to jail.”

I told him we didn’t know anything about the phone being stolen, and we intended to give it back, but we needed Apple to claim it. Then I said I’d go to jail for this story. And then he realized I wasn’t going to budge.

Then things got a little bit uglier, and dicier, and I don’t want to get into that stuff on a day like today because my point is that he is a beautiful and fair man and probably not used to not getting his way and he was clearly not getting his way on this day. Everyone has things that make them angry. My point is coming up.

Steve called me back, with a cold tone in his voice, saying he would send a note claiming the device. The last thing I said to him was “Steve, I just wanted to say that I like my job, and its exciting sometimes, but sometimes we have to do things that are difficult and what some might consider parasitic, with regards to reporting on health. And things like this.”

I told him I love Apple, but I have to do what’s right for the public and readers. I was trying to hide the fact that I was sad.

He replied, “You’re just doing your job.” And he said it in the kindest way possible. Which made me feel better and worse.

This was the last time Steve would be kind to me.

***

I’d walked around justifying how things went down for weeks after that. One day, a veteran reporter friend of mine and I were talking about the situation. At some point he asked me if I realized, irrespective of right or wrong, that we’d caused Apple a lot of trouble. I paused, and thought about Apple and Steve for a little bit, and all the designers and hard working people who built the phone. I said, “Yes.” I started to justify it as the right thing for the readers, and then I stopped. And I just kept thinking about Apple and Steve and how they felt. And thats when I knew my heart was not proud.

I will not regret things professionally. The scoop was big. People loved it. If I could do it again, I’d do the first story about the phone again.

But I probably would have given the phone back without asking for the letter. And I would have done the story about the engineer who lost it with more compassion and without naming him. Steve said we’d had our fun and we had the first story but we were being greedy. And he was right. We were. It was sore winning. And we were also being short sighted. And, sometimes, I wish we never found that phone at all. That is basically the only way this could have been painless. But that’s life. Sometimes there’s no easy way out.

I thought about the dilemma every day for about a year and half. It caused me a lot of grief, and stopped writing almost entirely. It made my spirit weak. Three weeks ago, I felt like I had had enough. I wrote my apology letter to Steve.

“From: brian lam <blam@thescuttlefish.com>

Subject: Hey Steve

Date: September 14, 2011 12:31:04 PM PDT

To: Steve Jobs <sjobs@apple.com>

Steve, a few months have passed since all that iphone 4 stuff went down, and I just wanted to say that I wish things happened differently. I probably should have quit right after the first story was published for several different reasons. I didn’t know how to say that without throwing my team under the bus, so I didn’t. Now I’ve learned it’s better to lose a job I don’t believe in any more than to do it well and keep it just for that sake.

I’m sorry for the problems I caused you.

B”

***

Young Steve Jobs was known for being unforgiving to those who betrayed him. But a few days ago I’d heard from a person very close to him that “it was all water under the bridge.” I never expected to get a response and I never did. But after sending that I forgave myself. And my writer’s block lifted.

I just feel lucky I had the chance to tell a kind man that I was sorry for being an asshole before it was too late.

I think we can all learn something from that.

Antics 02Apr19

Antics 02Apr19 Busy week so far, quick update with some pics of fun from the past few days 😉

More tonight too… and tomorrow…. best get organised. Enjoy !

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Been playing with a new slider plugin for photos, if you have your phone so its viewed landscape and click the lil arrow in the top right corner it goes to slideshow view / full screen with the thumbnails. Hoping its more user friendly 🙂 Laptop/desktop has the same option.