Information for newcomers to my services:

NewcomersMaking enquiry/booking

You are welcome to enquire either by email or phone, however unless I know you I dont take initial bookings except by phone. When calling do not use a private number or your call will not be answered.

I may not get back to you immediately if I am already with a client, however I will respond by sms in business hours that day usually, advising i can talk and inviting you to call again if convenient.

Please be respectful and address me accordingly. By all means, ask relevant questions and call back if necessary to book. Dont however waste my time with no intention of booking. Do not ask me if I want to offer my service for free/want a personal slave when you havent even met me. Its discourteous and insulting. You wouldnt expect any other service provider you see to work for free. Nothing screams timewaster more than that. It will not get a response.

Disrespect and timewasting behaviour are the quickest ways to join my block list, including smsing or calling at ridiculous hours of the night. These behaviours most certainly will not get you into session with me. If you cant show me respect outside of the playroom, I assume you certainly wont show it once inside.

On the day

If I havent seen you before, I will require you sms or call to confirm prior to our appointment. If you fail to do so, and have not advised me prior to this that you are unable to make the booking – you will be required to pay a deposit up front if you wish to make another. No exception. (Read above paragraph on timewasting behaviour).

Those that show me the professional courtesy of advising in advance they are unable to attend, will be given another appointment (without deposit) on request. I appreciate at times life’s hiccups cannot be avoided. Please remember though, its not just myself you inconvenience with a cancellation, other people miss out because you had a booking.

On confirming the booking, you will be given the address and instruction how to get there/where to park. Traffic can be hard to predict – if you are running early, please let me know as we may be able to start earlier. Same if you are running late, I may have another booking afterwards.

On arrival

We have time for a quick chat when you arrive, this does not come out of your session time. If there is anything you wish to ask/amend/include this is the time to let me know. If an enema is required I will administer that, again this does not come out of your time.

You do have a safeword, if there is an issue you can call it and I will address whatever the issue is. Fee is payable on arrival, and once discussion and any enema is complete, you will have a quick shower before we start the actual session.

Once you are showered and return to the room, the fun begins 😉

Session time

Whether you are a slave or a slut/plaything I am still in charge/control. Whether strict or relaxed, I like to have fun in session – usually at your expense. I appreciate your personality and the energy exchange between us, so dont be afraid to let yourself relax into the play.

I get off on your reactions and where I can take you. Its always difficult when you first meet someone to place your trust in them, but the rewards when you do are plentiful – I am experienced in both play and reading people, and I endeavour to give you a good experience not do you harm.


You will be allowed time to shower and dress prior to departure. Please take your time, sometimes it can take a few minutes to get one’s head back together 😉 Any further questions you have or feedback can be discussed once you have showered.

Hopefully you will have enjoyed the experience and both of us will look forward to our next time together.


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  1. Good morning Mistress,

    I am most intrigued with your website, which shows that you have put a lot of time and effort into developing it so well.

    About me, l am a polite mature age guy with little experience in the BDSM scene, although curiously interested in being a likely newcomer. I would therefore like to take up your 1hr new client special offer if I may please.

    However I must say from the outset, that whilst somewhat apprehensive upon seeing the more intense images displayed on your site, I feel that I really do need to push through the anxiety within me, and be fully trusting of your position and expertise in guaging the limits and boundaries of your clients, whilst also ensuring that such boundaries reach their full potential.

    Just for your record though, some things that would not be welcoming to me would be: any caning, noticeable marks left, use of needles or any piercing of the skin, mummification.

    Some things that would be appealing, that would allow me to open up to your control could be: anal play (as a total newby), enema, restraints to various props and/or sling, tease, sense deprivation, spanking, being made to feel like your plaything, whereby you have control of my pain and pleasure.

    I hope this paints an outline picture that you can work with and add your particular twists and flair.

    My intention would be to meet with you on possibly the 11th or 12th September for a mid morning appointment if that meets with your approval and availability.


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